haley's blog

35 accommodations i make for myself

(with chronic illness & adhd)

  1. using mobility aids when I need them
  2. using kt tape when I need it
  3. wearing sunscreen every day
  4. putting everything i need to do in my google calendar, even if it seems silly or small
  5. changing my environment. I am sensitive to uv light. so, I spend most of my time in our bedroom, where the light bothers me less.
  6. using blackout curtains
  7. meal prepping
  8. making doom piles + I have a basket in every room where I can dump clutter that doesn't have a home.
  9. using visual timers
  10. body doubling ("quality time" in love & deepspace is great for this!)
  11. my partner does our dishes and laundry. I do other chores that are physically easier for me, like making the bed & cleaning up clutter.
  12. flexing my work schedule for appointments
  13. showering every day
  14. we always have popsicles or frozen treats in the house, in case I need a sensory snack.
  15. having ice cubes on hand for my water bottle, or to do an ice dive if I need to regulate my emotions.
  16. avoiding mushy/soft foods and eating lots of crunchy/spicy foods
  17. cutting tags off of underwear, blankets, etc.
  18. using the pomodoro method
  19. using the goblin tools app, especially for writing emails
  20. filling my pill organizer every sunday night
  21. always carrying otc meds like aleve, voltaren gel, & benadryl
  22. letting restaurants & coffee shops know about my allergens
  23. drinking tea instead of coffee (most days)
  24. I have a laminated list of coping skills taped up in several places around the house. my therapist helped with this one.
  25. I stopped wearing high heels. all my shoes are flats or platforms
  26. wearing slippers around the house
  27. following a strict bedtime routine
  28. I don't use lots of products on my face & only use products made for sensitive skin.
  29. wearing noise-cancelling headphones or noise-dulling earplugs when I need them
  30. sleeping with several pillows & a cooling satin pillowcase
  31. we have an informal "rule" in our house that I control the thermostat, because I am usually always hot & more sensitive to changes in temperature than my partner.
  32. wearing soft & smooth fabrics, like cotton or satin, and avoiding scratchy or hyper-textured fabrics, like tweed or wool
  33. whenever I go somewhere, I always write down where I parked & notes to help me find my car (such as where to turn) in my notes app
  34. shaving my body hair, not because I feel obligated to but because it is a sensory preference
  35. I purposefully looked for a hybrid job, so I can work from home when I'm not feeling well